Advice from my future self (partial)

On this day December day in 2003 I posted about Playmobil toys and a portable toilet, leaving this selfie to collect virtual dust in a digital folder.

I just re-discovered it today, March 14, 2023.

I’ve so much to say to this young man, though I cannot remove the furrow from his brow — it has only deepened over the years. The thing is to come to grips with that and all the other wrinkles.

  • Wear too much sunscreen.
  • Avoid overdraft fees.
  • Make a budget and stick to it.
  • Save a little of every paycheck.
  • Get a credit card but pay the full balance every month. Otherwise save up for whatever it is you want.
  • (Insert more sound financial advice from the future that I have yet to learn.)
  • Trust and value yourself.
  • Save some time for exploring without purpose.
  • You don’t need to know what you’re going to be right away. Also? It can change over your lifetime.
  • If you find yourself in a rut? Know that you can alter course right now.
  • If you can’t alter your course or feel overwhelmed, spend time with someone you trust and share those feelings.
  • Reach out randomly when folks cross your mind.
  • Instead of saying no, find a partial yes.
  • You don’t need to be a part of every yes.
  • There’s no real sense in comparing yourself with others’ success.
  • Order extras of that thing you love that will wear out.
  • Anything is available outside of Amazon. Get it there.
  • You don’t have to justify things if you don’t care.
  • Care as much as you can.
  • Don’t cross post anything ever — copy and paste to the native platform.
  • If you see a penny heads up, pick it up for good luck. If it’s heads down, flip it over and make your own luck by being proactive.
  • Don’t rely on luck.
  • Write things down for the future you.
  • Buy fewer bananas than you think you’ll want to eat.

I’ll add more later or have the computer figure it out when the plugins get better.